Find your voice. Choose your path. Self-Actuate. Create your world. All of these pieces of advice have one thing in common. They are about you, not us. They stop (and may even fail) the moment you have to relate with others. Yet, we can learn a lot about ourselves in the context of relationship – maybe more so than in isolation.
So why isn’t the advice we give more relational? Find a good conversation. Choose a pursuit to join. Actuate a community.
Imagine how things would change when the “i” becomes a “we.”