Sometimes we get a number of different choices in life all at the same time. In these situations I’ve often experienced the lack of a clear yes. No single choice jumps up to say, “Here! Chose me!”
In those times I look for a clear NO. If I ask enough questions, dig beneath the surface, pay a little more attention, I begin to see clear NO’s.
The clarity of a NO is significant. They are based on deeply held values. The moment when I say, “Oh NO, I can’t do that,” is the same moment I am redirected toward a clearer YES.